There is a lot of pressure in the world right now to go to university, even if you don’t think it’s right for you. This pressure comes from school, parents and ultimately ourselves. This is why it is crucial to understand what is right for you, and remember that if you start one thing and it doesn’t suit you, you can always change.

Let me quickly say that the fact that we have to make a decision at the age of 17 or 18 is ridiculous. At that age, all we have ever known is school. So, for some people, all they want to do is get out of that field, or continue in it because it’s the “safe and easy route”. We have pretty much no life experience at this age, so why are we forced to make a decision so soon?

On the other hand, at age 18, you are an adult, thus making decisions is something that will keep coming at you. Nonetheless, for a lot of people it is extremely daunting.

How do you know what you want?

Think about whether or not you like academics. What subjects do you like? What do you often think about? What’s your dream job, does this require a degree? Do you even like writing essays? (I assure you that every university degree includes writing essays!).

Conversely, do you want to get stuck in with a job? Do you want to be sat in an office all day, or doing something more hands on? Again, these questions aren’t always easy, but they are a good place to start.

If you are considering university, don’t just go to the one everyone else is going to. You need to do thorough research into what kind of university you want to attend: campus or city-based, one that’s renown for parties or its fun societies. There are so many universities, and it can be daunting to make a decision. The best route to go is think about your predicted A-Level grades, and research schools around that. Then, think about how far from home you want to live, how expensive trains home would be, and even where your friends will be.

The decision to attend university is deeply personal and should be based on a thoughtful analysis of your goals, interests, financial considerations, and personal circumstances. By clarifying your objectives, exploring alternative paths, researching potential fields, assessing financial aspects, understanding your learning style, seeking guidance, considering your passions, and evaluating life circumstances, you can make a well-informed decision about whether university is the right fit for you. Remember, the journey to success takes many paths, and choosing the one that aligns with your unique journey is key to your fulfilment and achievement.

Also remember that you can always change your mind. I did! I thought that university was the only thing for me, and I thought this for eight years of my life. Little did I know that it really wasn’t for me, and I’m happier doing a job I love and living make home.

Think big. Don’t ever give up on your dreams. If you want something bad enough, you will make it happen at whatever cost.